"We long to merge with our lover so deeply that our vulnerable hearts are one light, but we also resist this oneness. We ache to let go of all protection and enter nakedly into unguarded love, but we are also afraid of this vulnerability.
We yearn and hesitate to give our deepest depth of being- which is God’s depth- through sexual love. This openess of being is all there is and who we are, and yet we stand divided and protected. We refuse to trust".

David Deida (Enlightened Sex)